What it means to understand ourselves?

For me,it means,first of all,to understand the "why"s! Why i feel and react emotionally the way i feel and react at every moment of my life !It means to understand the real causes(physical,mental,emotional,spiritual,social etc.) that stand behind my moods, feelings and emotions!It means to understand why i am attracted to what i am attracted,and why i am repelled from what i am repelled! It means to understand the real motives that stand behind everythings i do.It means to get to know what makes me happy or unhappy,what makes me suffer and what makes me to experience pleasure.It means understanding of my true wants and needs. It means to understand why i like what i like,and why i dislike what i dislike.It means to understand fully the values,principles and ideals by which i live .It means to understand my true nature and my true essense. It means awareness.It means better communication with my deepest feelings,wants,needs,desires,passions,sufferings,joys and pleasures.It means to understand of what i am made of physically,mentally,spiritually ,and how these things function and interact. It means to understand the "languages" in which my body,feelings,mind,dreams,my higher Self ,my unconsious parts are "talking" to me. The most interesting part of this is -our feelings! In understanding of our feelings lies the understanding of life! Imagine life without any feelings! Does it make sense? Our feelings are what makes our life the way it is!If you'll examine your life,and all the different parts of it ,you'll discover the things that make you feel the way you feel: economical problems,the opposite sex,family,children,other people,friends,news,beauty,art,politics,work,leisure,vacations,holidays,music etc. There are some things you feel strongly about ,about others -you have no feelings ,at all.Some things repell you,some-make you nervous,some-bring you great pleasure,some-pain and suffering...Many are pleasant,and many are unpleasant...Do you understand why you feel all these feelings? What it means for you to live fully?-It mean satisfaction with your life! With what you are,what you do and have!It mean having family all members of which are happy!It mean having good and true friends! It mean having good job which you enjoy!It mean that each day excilarates you and makes you enthusiastic! It mean to live in such a way in which you are in love with everythings :in love with life and other people,in love with her(or him),in love with pets,trees,flowers;with sights,sounds,smells and the world around you!...In love with what you are,what you do and what you have! In love with present and with the distant future! You find that ,each day,is exciting,meaningful and makes you deeply happy! And you live at high level of communication with life,the universe ,yourself and other people.And create,create,create...exciting and wonderful world for yourself and others,full of joy,discoveries,successes and love!